Mary asked:
I would say what is typical is within three dates. How long do people nowadays wait to have *** when first dating? When should you invite a guy over for the first time? How long should you wait before having *** for the first time? I would say within a month or six dates. We’re in our late 30’s. Thx.
Does it not work out into a relationship if you have *** within two weeks or four dates? Thanks.
I would say what is typical is within three dates. How long do people nowadays wait to have *** when first dating? When should you invite a guy over for the first time? How long should you wait before having *** for the first time? I would say within a month or six dates. We’re in our late 30’s. Thx.
Does it not work out into a relationship if you have *** within two weeks or four dates? Thanks.

May 31st, 2009 at 7:56 am
I usually have *** within the first 2 weeks; but I have noticed many women want it earlier.
EDIT:Mary; Please email me and I can give you clearer answer
June 2nd, 2009 at 11:20 am
well when ever the mood takes me lol but i think its up to the individual
June 4th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
Well it depends on the quality of the dates. If you connected and had deep conversation within three dates then that’s fine. If you go on ten dates and never had any real connection or spark, then why would you get in bed. Its really case-by-case basis. Another thing, at the age of 30s, usually its fewer dates especially if you hit it off from the start. The first date is never advisable because it might give the impression that that’s what you’re in for or that you sleep around too.
Having *** too early and then having a serious relationship should not affect the relationship. If both parties are serious about each other, time is not a factor, just feelings.
June 7th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
I think it honestly depends on the people. Some people could base their relationship on that kinda stuff and might not care about doing it.